tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37455767424743016712008-05-02T11:34:07.838-07:00Brilliant Birth | a doula's doingskristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comBlogger64125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-74377596874857702802008-03-07T19:24:00.000-08:002008-03-07T19:32:18.532-08:00i need a babysitter!i have definitely used up all my favours with family and friends now, while i attend births. the last 3 have all been 24 hour plus births which means that my husband or mother or sister has to take time off to watch the kids. clearly this is not an ideal situation. but i'm SO paranoid and i simply can't imagine leaving my kids with a stranger. and to complicate matters, i need to leave the kids kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-53472654254751426462008-03-06T12:19:00.000-08:002008-03-06T12:35:38.881-08:00abandoning a birthwell it happened. i had to literally RUN out of a birth. in retrospect my mother had been sick two days earlier with a stomach bug but on the day i was called to meet my client at the hospital that was the furthest thing from my mind. my client had PROM (premature rupture of membranes) which means that her water broke before contractions started. she was admitted to hospital for a cold kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-29585210116593786752008-02-27T17:34:00.000-08:002008-02-28T13:54:14.041-08:00what's in a diaper wipe anyways?i used diaper wipes with india. then when kalden came along my awareness about chemicals and toxins was heightened and i took a look at what i was using to clean my kids butt. needless to say, after reading this i switched to a plain old cloth with warm water. kalden's bum has never looked better. :) from http://www.answers.com/topic/baby-wipes Cleansing ingredients Water is the main ingredientkristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-50156636310267234652008-02-27T07:06:00.000-08:002008-02-27T07:21:22.377-08:00do anti-depressants work as well as we think? http://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/health/article3466137.ece this article touches on something that i feel pretty strongly about. researchers found that most people do as well on sugar pills as they do on actual depression med's. therefore the placebo effect is largely responsible for mood improvement among anti-depressant users. it is downright frightening how many people have taken, or kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-15110410928686777972008-02-26T18:31:00.000-08:002008-02-26T18:48:44.885-08:00i've been gone gone gone, been gone so longi lost my mind. it's true. it's funny now but it wasn't funny about 3 weeks ago. several months ago kalden began to wake up at night every single hour. before that there had been stretches of a few hours, maybe but then one day it became EVERY SINGLE HOUR. and on a really bad night he woke up every 45 minutes. people didn't believe me. people told me he must be sick. people thought it was kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-44001468616583553392008-01-20T18:37:00.001-08:002008-01-20T18:37:19.989-08:00urban sprawl... the apocalypse of community Christopher Dewdney on the sprawl apocalypse LUCAS OLENIUK/TORONTO STAR The Vellore Woods housing development west of Hwy. 400 at Rutherford Road in Vaughan. Jan 19, 2008 04:30 AM Christopher Dewdney Trouble is, everybody wants their slice of the dream; the upscale house, the luxury car. And everything's getting bigger. Apparently hybrids were a blip. kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-26332111513910184292008-01-01T20:12:00.001-08:002008-01-01T20:12:33.386-08:00a real honour...every time a doula attends a birth, we feel privileged to have been invited into such a personal and special event in people's lives.  at a recent birth i was blessed with the honour of cutting the baby's umbilical cord and each time i remember that moment i feel a wave of emotion come over me. at the time it was sort of a blur; it had been a long labour and i think we were all a little loopy bykristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-44002998132250450522007-12-30T19:58:00.001-08:002007-12-30T19:58:43.968-08:00sleep deprivation as torture.i suppose the good thing about kalden's sleep habits (or lack thereof) is that i will truly be able to empathize with my clients after their babies are born.  not that i couldn't before (india had her own issues as a babe) but kalden is certainly taking the cake for most difficult/bad/unpredictable/needy sleeper. since birth kalden has not been a baby that i could just put down.  not in his packkristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-90579139886674910962007-12-29T00:43:00.000-08:002007-12-28T21:57:19.659-08:00wise words from a wise woman - the nestle boycotton a local parenting forum i'm on, many of us are "lactivists".  we're the tree lovin, hippy mamas that love to boycott and get active about what we believe in. in a discussion about nestle and why we should all be boycotting them, my wise friend deb had this to say: (orange text are my edits) it isn't about being a bad mother or a good mother. It isn't that Breastfeeding is BEST.. it iskristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-39721374369860348952007-12-28T06:38:00.001-08:002007-12-28T06:38:13.579-08:00worst parenting advice - by gary ezzothis fraudster is supposedly a parenting "expert" but with absolutely no credentials he has HORRIFYING ADVICE that i honestly consider to be abuse.  no parent should be advised to ignore their newborn babies cries. in this day and age, where "attachment parenting" and "gentle parenting" are not just the growing trend, but the evidence based approach most reasonable health professionals recommendkristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-82692766257503993152007-12-27T00:00:00.000-08:002007-12-27T17:37:59.113-08:00watch your language!this article moved me in a way i can hardly describe.  the author revolutionized how i think (and talk) about breastfeeding.  it's a hard pill to swallow but the truth often is, isn't it?. Watch Your Language! By Diane Wiessinger, MS, IBCLC (Reprinted from the Journal of Human Lactation, Vol. 12, No. 1, 1996) "The truth is, breastfeeding is nothing more than normalkristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-66939037848001691922007-12-26T14:45:00.001-08:002007-12-26T14:45:39.198-08:00the perfect xmasi asked my mother not to use wrapping paper this year in order to be kind to the environment and although i know it was hard for my mother... she used almost 100% recycled materials and it made me so happy.  my gifts looked beautiful. i aspire to have my gifts look like this next year - i'll need to start practising soon to perfect this bow making skill! dinner this year was wonderful.  my kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-931656850150148902007-12-23T14:46:00.000-08:002007-12-23T14:54:03.231-08:00happy holidays! well i was SO organized this year that i designed and printed xmas holiday cards in OCTOBER. what a smart lady i am. then we moved. then i lost the cards. then i deleted the files of the cards from my computer. then i cried. so... here is what i could salvage from my pc. i hope everyone has a wonderful holiday and next year i promise a real card! kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-63752820720149212722007-12-22T15:03:00.000-08:002007-12-23T15:12:34.792-08:00santa pics... for your viewing pleasure first xmas for india... santa's cool man! second xmas... not so sure. and by the third xmas - she's NOT impressed. but kalden doesn't seem to mind.kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-8025196998043110912007-12-11T19:50:00.001-08:002007-12-11T19:50:38.749-08:00i'm sorry dear blog...when life gets crazy, something's gotta give.  sadly it's the blog.  the baby is teething, my stepdaughter is visiting, it's holiday season, clients are having babies.... there is no time for the finer things in life like sitting at a laptop with a glass of wine and pouring out my thoughts into a blog. i will come back.  promise! kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-26518512797674972582007-11-15T13:45:00.000-08:002007-11-15T13:49:34.653-08:00why i still breastfeed my 4 year oldno, not me. i don't have a 4 year old. i stopped nrursing at 18 months with india and i sometimes regret it. i think this is a beautifully written article about something that is oddly controversial for a lot of people. http://news.independent.co.uk/health/article3155364.ece Why I still breastfeed my four-year-old Friends may think it's freaky, says Annalisa Barbieri, but why should I stop whenkristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-73987981642847700812007-11-09T09:55:00.000-08:002007-11-09T10:08:29.140-08:00crawling!well now it's a whole new world! kalden is finally crawling. for weeks he's been trying to get his arms and legs working together and this afternoon he suddenly got it. how exciting! kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-35883905726949567512007-11-08T12:07:00.000-08:002007-11-08T12:21:56.848-08:00miniature village if the world were made up of 100 people... this is a book that i want to get for india. we see the animated version of treehouse occasionally and it's a really beautiful way to think about the earth. here's a grown up version: http://www.miniature-earth.com/me_english.htmkristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-29939274848112571582007-11-07T05:31:00.000-08:002007-11-09T10:10:40.234-08:00breastfeeding makes kids smartera new study proves what we already knew... Link to story Breast feeding makes kids smarter: study MICHAEL KAHN Reuters November 6, 2007 at 9:06 AM EST LONDON — A common gene can help explain why breast-fed babies tend to grow up to be more intelligent than those raised exclusively on bottled milk. Breast-fed babies who shared the genetic variant outscored bottle-fed peers in intelligence testskristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-66509791578739435692007-11-07T05:23:00.000-08:002007-11-07T05:31:22.334-08:00sorry!i know that i've been missing for over a month and i am SORRY! i had births, i moved to a new home, my kids have been sick and my 8 month old has gone of a sleep strike. something had to give and it ended up being the blog. but now i'm back and the good news is that i've been mentally hoarding lots of information and articles and im going to post them now! at least i have a picture of the kids kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-28649924555249179152007-10-02T09:50:00.000-07:002007-10-03T05:40:08.730-07:00bumper stickers in northern californiamy aunt has been mentally collecting all the funny bumper stickers she's found while living in the bay area in california. i almost fell off my chair laughing when she sent me this list. I homeschool because I've seen the village and I don't want it raising my child. What would Scooby do? Annoyed by immigrants? Tell it to the Indians. If you're not outraged, you're probably watching Fox News.kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-38995944273667013852007-09-29T20:07:00.000-07:002007-09-29T20:18:38.447-07:00breastfeeding challengekalden and i were on the local news this evening. how cool is that? and we not only met dr. jack newman, but he held kalden and that was part of the news coverage! kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-7734661195635392272007-09-26T07:17:00.000-07:002007-09-26T07:32:59.635-07:00chemical free cleaningWe are moving in October and our new home will be chemical free as much as humanly possible. I particularly like the suggestion of getting plants to clean the air... Eco-friendly cleaning products Keep your home -- and our Earth -- clean with natural solutions that are kind to the environment. By Dayna Boyer If spring cleaning conjures images of blue toilet bowl cleaner and white surface kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-61424002768465937652007-09-24T07:44:00.001-07:002007-09-24T07:53:42.254-07:00loblaws marketing infant formula with freebies i have to express my disappointment with loblaws. this weekend i saw a coupon in their flyer for FREE pc organics baby cereal and i started to tear it out. then i read the small print. "FREE with this coupon & the purchase of Similac Step 2 formula with Omega 3&6, 1020g...." and so i'm mad and annoyed and irritated. luckily so are my friends. i know a lot of people don't understand what is kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3745576742474301671.post-12081552515134402632007-09-22T18:07:00.001-07:002007-09-22T18:11:42.229-07:00breastfeeding clinic fundraiser - please come!this is just a reminder that next saturday at the Dr. Jack Newman breastfeeding clinic, we will be holding a fundraising indoor yard sale. there will be lots of baby stuff to choose from - some great baby clothes (i should know, i donated a bunch!). Location: Canadian College of Naturopathic Medicine 1255 Sheppard Ave. East (at Leslie, near the Ikea) Saturday September 29, kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14050916344094533720noreply@blogger.com